surreal

This was part of a much longer response to my earlier post, one which ticked pretty much all of the boxes: You are spreading fear, you should have done something, you are choosing to be a victim, the guy was just trying to be friendly, they were just trying to interact with you, you over-reacted, you didn't react enough (yup, I somehow did both).

And this one, also from the shaming & blaming checklist (I left the typo, I think they were trying to say "not to be a victim blamer"):